tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1504159935075650335.post4121849369959411635..comments2024-02-26T03:19:07.121-05:00Comments on Nattering Chatter: The First TimeBarbarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11569542345623047891noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1504159935075650335.post-61317841023770872462014-09-17T12:05:42.622-04:002014-09-17T12:05:42.622-04:00its so good :)
guzellik-adresim.blogspot.com.trits so good :)<br />guzellik-adresim.blogspot.com.trAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14746652882972606285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1504159935075650335.post-30551309698634756762014-07-07T23:48:33.229-04:002014-07-07T23:48:33.229-04:00Barbara, with your smile and your mind, whatever y...Barbara, with your smile and your mind, whatever you are un'ed you have unchosen. You know you can have pretty much anything you want. You have only to reach.<br /><br />btw, so happy to see your blog again.Don Dewsnaphttp://oakwand.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1504159935075650335.post-1512724828444374462014-07-06T23:28:12.610-04:002014-07-06T23:28:12.610-04:00Well... speaking as a lady who has been at the poi...Well... speaking as a lady who has been at the point of thinking all is hopeless many times (and was very wrong.)<br /><br />Ya gotta go after it.<br /><br />Yes, it would be perfection to think that we could just be casually walking down the street one day and The Right One will appear, make himself known to us, and the rest is bliss. But it does not work like that 99.9% of the time.<br /><br />When my ex-husband left me in 2006, I had not had sex in seven years. That was not my idea, and that was about 50% of the time I was married. I had only dated three men before my marriage. I thought I was hopelessly unattractive and would never have a relationship again or sex.<br /><br />But I got on a dating site or two, then I dated. Had sex. Dated more, met some cool guys, met some more cool guys, eventually married the coolest guy of all. I've had more fun in the past five years than I did in the first 47.<br /><br />You know I'm not a model. I'm short, fat, and missing some teeth now, as well as being in my late 40's, early 50's when all this was and is going on.<br /><br />I just put myself out there without expectation of meeting Mr. Perfect, without desperation or hostility, and with an open mind and friendly demeanor. Going out casually with a nice meal and good conversation was usually my main goal. When I ran into a dud, I would dump him and move on.<br /><br />You are not a bad lookin' female. Plus, you know who you are, what you like, and what you will and will not put up with. In my book, all excellent traits to have when looking for a partner.<br /><br />So...don't give up, K?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com